how do you do that? how can you curb yourself from doing it? i’m a guy and i just can’t control it when lust arrives. (no offense meant, just in case)

Anonymous asked: how do you do that? how can you curb yourself from doing it? i'm a guy and i just can't control it when lust arrives. (no offense meant, just in case)

Well, you can’t really miss something you’ve never had. But don’t get me wrong, I have urges and have had plenty of opportunities to have sex, however, when your decisions to do something or to refrain from something are so deeply rooted in your heart, it’s like steroids for willpower.